· A House
Isaiah 56:3–7; 1 Peter 2:4–5; Leviticus 6:12–13; 1 Thessalonians 5:17
What if prayer isn't a spiritual discipline to master but a relationship to cultivate? In this Mother's Day message, Pastor Juliet Lyons shows that deep relationships are built on communication, and prayer is our communication channel with God. Through Isaiah's promise of a house of prayer for all nations and Peter's picture of believers as a holy priesthood, she calls the church to keep the fire on the altar burning.
Key takeaways
- Every strong relationship is built on communication and shared experiences, and our relationship with God is no different; prayer is the channel He built for it.
- Isaiah 56 promised that the excluded would one day have joy in God's house of prayer, and Jesus fulfilled that by making believers the temple of the Holy Spirit.
- Because we are both the temple and a holy priesthood, the Old Testament command to keep the fire burning continually becomes the New Testament call to pray without ceasing.
- Your tongue is the altar; the words that come out of your mouth are either fragrant incense rising to God or bottom-feeder talk that tears people down.
- The best gift you can give the people you love is to show up for them in prayer, laying hands on them morning and evening.
Message notes
Relationships are the treasure
On Mother’s Day, Pastor Juliet begins by observing that the day celebrates what actually matters: relationships. At the end of life nobody thinks about the car they didn’t buy; they think about the people they loved and whether they made the most of those relationships. Counselors agree that strong relationships require genuine communication and shared experiences, and the same is true of our relationship with God. She recalls a boss early in her career who believed silence gave him gravitas; over time the communication shrank to one-word texts and the whole department folded. The world runs on communication, yet we often try to live our faith without it.
When faith goes on autopilot
Pastor Juliet describes the early weeks of following Jesus, when every prayer seems answered and every message seems personal, and then the slow drift into autopilot, like driving once it becomes automatic. We sing the songs and read the Bible without putting our whole selves in, and the relationship gets stale. She jokes about what her ten-year marriage would look like if Pastor Max simply stopped talking to her and sent formal texts addressed to “Mrs. Lyons.” God longs for a deep, intimate, regular connection, and prayer is the vessel for it. If you feel like you are in a rut, get in your closet and talk to Him; it is about depth, not hours.
A house of prayer for all nations
Continuing the series on the kind of house God is building, after last week’s message on a house of encouragement and ahead of Heart for the House on June 7, Pastor Juliet turns to Isaiah 56:3–7. Isaiah prophesied to a people who excluded foreigners and eunuchs from the temple that a day was coming when everyone who bound themselves to the Lord would be given joy in His house of prayer and their sacrifices would be accepted on His altar. Through Jesus, people of every background have access to the Father, and a life of prayer deepens our relationship with Him. She challenges those who claim a gift of prayer or healing but whose private prayer life is sporadic: we cannot do in public what we are not doing in private, because private prayer is where we get the backing of heaven.
You are the temple and the priesthood
Jesus quoted Isaiah 56 when He cleared the temple the week He died, and after the resurrection Peter understood why. In 1 Peter 2:4–5 believers are living stones being built into a spiritual house and a holy priesthood offering spiritual sacrifices through Jesus Christ. Anyone who feels rejected or unworthy is now the temple of the most high God, included in the blessings of Abraham from Genesis 12. But that should also put a holy fear in us, because Jesus did not abolish the law; He fulfilled it, and He cares deeply about what happens in His temple, which is now us. Leviticus says the fire on the altar must be kept burning and must not go out, and Aaron burned incense every morning and evening. The New Testament translates that for the new priesthood: pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5), pray in the Spirit at all times (Ephesians 6:18), continue earnestly in prayer (Colossians 4:2).
Your tongue is the altar
If we are the temple and prayer is the incense, Pastor Juliet asks what the altar is: it is your mouth. What comes out of it is either incense rising to the King of Kings or incense rising to the enemy. She calls the church to stop using the tongue for malicious, bottom-feeder talk, manipulation, or selfish ambition and instead to call down healing, build and inspire the next generation, and petition heaven for a move of God. A priest who gives space to other priests’ gossip or contempt for leaders is as culpable as they are; she points to Eli in 1 Samuel 3:13, judged for allowing his sons to make themselves vile. “It matters what comes out of our mouth.”
Pray at all times
Quoting James 5, Pastor Juliet notes that Friday’s prayer night included anointing the sick with oil, and she says that spiritual anemia is usually a prayer problem. She offers practical ways to pray: to God as God on His throne, to Jesus as a friend, to the Father as a child, to Him as doctor and counselor, interceding for nations and loved ones, praying prophetically into what has not yet appeared, and speaking blessing over people who don’t bless you. Prayer is a sacrifice, but God backs the people who know Him.
The gift that never runs dry
Her closing challenge for Mother’s Day is to pamper the women you celebrate, but to give them the gift that will never run dry: show up for them in prayer. Husbands and wives should lay hands on each other in the morning, and families should pray over their children in their coming and going, weeping and rejoicing. Your prayers are being collected in heaven and are doing something even when you don’t feel it. Every person in your world is a seed that is nurtured through the words that come out of your mouth.
